PMDD forum

Ohhh it breaks my heart to know how many of us is really out there having PMDD ruining the chances of being happy.

But its all this stupid PMDD that takes control over our lives and ourselves that we become this weird person who is not us. Look this is a big issue ok, Im glad that you at least were able to get this started and realize that she has the case of PMDD. The timeline you mentioned worked exactly to point of her behaviour outcome. I have been with my fiance for 5 years now and we were really close friends before that, he's been going thru this with me all this time. And before i acknowledged i have PMDD it was terrible. I was acting exactly the same. I was in that denial that its all him, his faults and all that jazz. Blaming everything on him. After i diagnosed myself with PMDD i knew it was all me. Then things were lil different. So i think its very important that she realizes and acknowledges that she has PMDD and to read about it to know she's not crazy and only only one. As for you, if u really want to be with her, if you choose that then you must know that you will require a lot of patience and strenght to cope with it. for me PMDD lasts all together almost 3 weeks, so i only have about 1 week or so to be me every month and thats after the period starts. All that u mentioned so far is exactly what my fiance and i gone thru, Geez how many times i broke up with him....its embarrasing honestly. But he never gave up, and i think i'm blessed to have such an amazing guy that loves me that much to deal with all this craziness. I know its not easy, because when PMDD is kicking in i feel like he's my biggest enemy at times before. When I was on yaz which also i pretty much diagnosed my self with, things were better. BUT that was for 2 years until i had a case of really bad side effects from it. loss of hair, wight gain and loss of libido. Then i couldnt take it anymore, and decided to go off. Went off still was in my system for a year, with occasional PMDD hits....then since i've been trying to find natural remedies for it. Now its back pretty much full on, i didnt go to work 2 times this month already and we're only half way cause i cannot deal with it.....its too much, too much on me. When im not affected by PMDD i feel like i can do anything, i am happy i am full of life.....when pmdd is around i could care less about ANYTHING and I am a either evil person or very emotional. Mostly evil tho, like a monster total opposite of what i really am. the things i say and what goes on in my head is pretty horrific scene. I cant believe still to this day. Its like all twisted thoughts, and they're so exausting. Anyway ask anything you like ok, and take care and good luck. Again the main thing is you're willing to be there for her and provide support. But she needs to recognize this ok. So tell her please. And maybe when u guys are together bring up this website or others and read with her. Im sorry my thoughts are all over the place.